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Post by Shadow on Jul 2, 2011 17:50:07 GMT 1
Been a very trying last few weeks-last couple in particular that has kept me away from Renegades more than I wanted to be-however-things are settling down now-Mr Shads has a clean bill of health and is resuming work next week,there have been a few other major things I also had to deal with but hopefully those things are now resolved so I'm intending to be back on here a lot more regularly starting now  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2011 20:25:07 GMT 1
Pleased that things appear to be returning to normal for you. CWL  |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 2, 2011 20:36:54 GMT 1
Thanks CWL-Ive spent literally weeks in a permanent state of high stress but feeling way better now  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2011 20:45:44 GMT 1
Stress is okay in small doses but once it gets out of hand is never a pleasant thing to deal with...................no matter what the cause. Can only be a good thing you feel it's back under control or at least managable. I often never realised just how much stress I was under at times until other people pointed it out. Recognising it is half the battle. CWL  |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 2, 2011 20:52:34 GMT 1
Very true. I dont think I realised how bad things were getting until I took stock of a few things.My sleep patterns were getting horrendous,things werent getting done because I was in an almost paralized state of panic over so many things-there always seemed so much to deal with nothing was being dealt with-but Ive dealt with some important things over the last week or so and thats taken some pressure off.Things feel alot more managable now |
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Post by Jazz on Jul 2, 2011 20:59:31 GMT 1
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2011 21:01:32 GMT 1
I know those feelings very well particularly the one of being completely overwhelmed by everything..................... Once you sort out the really important stuff from the rest it then becomes more managable............. well hopefully it does. In fact there were a few occasions where I just told myself bugger it! Let it ride for a few days and then started again....................... only this time dealing with a single issue and not the twenty I thought I should be sorting out at once. Queer thing stress and not to be taken lightly................ CWL |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 2, 2011 21:12:27 GMT 1
Has so many wierd affects  I was getting physically ill then panicking cos I couldnt do the things that needed to get done-was exhausted at night but couldnt sleep til late-then was up again at 3 or 4 in the morning. Couldnt get round to doing even the most stupid simple things-in some ways it was almost as if depression was setting in-knowing you are achieving nothing but feeling powerless to change things.And as things mounted up things became even more impossible to sort out But Some very big things were sorted this week-and the fact that my sons hospital appointment has been postponed for a month took a huge pressure off also-so right now it is one thing at a time-the important things not the silly things that can wait-its about recognising that everything doesnt all have to be done at once  |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 3, 2011 23:18:09 GMT 1
Ive been about today and its been quiet on here-mind it was a beautiful day having said that and I wouldnt be surprised if people are taking advantage I'll say goodnight as its getting late |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 10, 2011 1:36:15 GMT 1
Very busy last few days-had to arrange for my youngest to visit his new secondary school for a visit before his taster week starting Monday-all of us are nervous as hell,followed by various other meetings -had a great day out today celebrating my mothers 74th birthday-something I wasnt sure we'd be doing at the beginning of this year and I have to admit I enjoyed the champagne Just a brief pop in as I am very tired-one minute theres nowt to do then its like an avalanche I'll hopefully have some time tomorrow to have a sit down and do some catching up-so goodnight for now xxxxx |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 10, 2011 12:15:52 GMT 1
So pleased Mr shads been given a clean bill of health do you know what was wrong? Well you've got your house back |
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Post by Pollypeterborough on Jul 10, 2011 16:38:43 GMT 1
Glad you are feeling Shadow. |
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Post by Shadow on Jul 10, 2011 22:41:28 GMT 1
Thank you Milkhope and Polly. Mr Shads had trapped a bundle of nerves in his spine and he couldnt use his right arm or hand but luckily theyve worked themselves free and hes regained the feeling. Bit of an intense night here-Ive had to re-assure the youngest a great deal as hes nervous about tomorrow-"big schools" difficult enough but hes the only one in his year going to this school-his choice-least his big brother and sister are there to keep an eye on things |
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